Originally Posted by walkswithwolves
I would help her. Because it didn't work out between your X and you should not, cause problems between you and your daughter. So hold your head high and say to yourself I can do this.
I agree, love is love and sharing with your daughter is so much more important than any X . Besides think of the life lesson you teach your daughter!
Keep your daughter out of it. When it is her turn to marry she shouldn't have to have a who is mad at whom (?) at the ceremony. This woman will be part of her life too. She will never replace you. Myself, I went on a diet and felt better about myself. Take care.