I am wondering if you should keep your private messages or delete them. I seem to have trouble finding the one I want from a certain person. Example, looking back for address to monthly swap partner or secret pal. I decided to add the people to my buddy list. I then add a note like: Oct. Secret Pal and then add her real name and address there. Then I don't have to hunt it down. BUT, I still hesitate to delete messages. So.... How do you do it?