Maride

I came across this while visiting another site today and I found it amazing. It is the commencement speech that JK Rowlings gave at the Harvard graduation in June 2008. If I had heard it back then it may have not meant much to me. Yes, it may have still be inspirational, but I would have not felt she was talking to me. Today is another situation. Is 20 minutes long, but very enjoyable.

http://harvardmagazine.com/commencem...ce-imagination


I spent a long time last night reading Maryse's post about trusting people who come to the board asking for give aways. I am guilty as charged of being one of those who wishes I could be able to afford something and have no money. I don't ask, but wish for ways to improve my craft. I have received some wonderful help from people on this board as well as I have seen many other people being helped and many others asking over and over for help. I have also being one who has given...a lot. But I gave to someone who I knew had a true need and not once asked for help. I did received a thank you and feel badly that she has not come back here, but I feel like a better person knowing I helped. Nobody likes to be asked to give, but how else would we know that the need exist?

I encourage those with a real need not to stop posting; either asking for help or updating us on your situation. This is a great place to come and vent because we are like a big family, except that most of us have never met, and sometimes that way is better. And we can always choose to ignore the post or read it.

I have just found out that I will not be able to start my new job for at least another month thanks to the graceful lack of desire to work of the employees of the state of NY. I am sure there are some wonderful employees there, but someone lost my college transcript, and given the fact that I went to school in Puerto Rico, and my transcript is in spanish, it may take two weeks for it to be replaced and two weeks for my file to be eveluated. I was hoping to have enough money to take an apartment and move, but if I am not working that will not happen, and I will have no place to take my family. Is breaking me apart to think of that possibility, but I am helpless. I have to be out of here by August 1st, but so far don't have the means to go any where else. I am not posting this to make anyone feel bad for me, but just as an example how someone may be happily sewing and posting great projects, but no one knows what is really going on deep inside. I am sure I will survive this situation as I have survived many others where I was even more helpless, like health related, but I don't see that light yet. I just know is there.

I have been thinking about this since last night when I finished reading the board, but listening to her speech made me realize that by opening up you can inspire others and touch their lives. I am very happy to come here every day and touch someone's life as mine has been touched by so many of you.

Thank you for being here for me, and thanks Maryse for starting the thread.

CarrieAnne

Aw, hugs to you...I know you were really hoping to start your job soon. UGH....must be so frustrating!

clem55

So sorry that things aren"t going just right for you. I know it must be very scary for you, but you sound like a strong person who will be able to handle whatever your situation.

mrsdralshhadeh

WOW.. you post was touching,, truly,, And I feel with you. A post meant to vent can be turned into something not as planned,, (been there, just recently).
I am sorry you gave and then she disappeared, but in my chosen part of life, we believe that is you give with your right hand, and not even your left hand knows about it the reward is even higher in the person you believe in(god,,, or who ever). So,, just take it, file it away,,and know you did good. No one can be in control of someone else. I am proud of what you did,,(not that it matters,,but I am,,lol)
mrsdralshhadeh

RatherB Quilting

> Thinking of ya and thanking you for a wonderful thought to start my day. Your positive attitude will make all the difference no matter what! :)

dakotamaid

>>>>>>Love and prayers going your way.

Luv Quilts and Cats

Hang in there! I know you will get through this. Is there any way to speed up the transcript, like couldn't the college overnight it or overnight it to you then you could overnight it to where it as to go? There are enough of us on this board that we can come up with some solution to your dilemma, don't you think? In the meantime, breathe, deeply, it will all work out.

littlehud

I am sending you (((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))and thoughts and prayers that all will work out for you. You have such a positive attitude. That is wonderful. Keep us posted and if you need anything don't be afraid to ask.

b.zang

Bueauracratic paperwork and bumbo jumbo is enough to make a sane person crazy.
Keep sewing those little pieces together and stay sane.

amma

((((HUGS)))) I hope it all gets straightened out soon and you are back to work as soon as possible!!!

Thank you for the link, we can all use some inspiration :D:D:D