If you ignore a cat sometimes it will make them want to pay attention to you. Had you stopped paying attention to her?

Cats are so funny. If you try to woo them, they tend to turn their noses up and sashay away, but if you ignore them they want your attention. My cats always wanted affection most when i was busy reading or writing and not in the mood to give them attention. It's like they are saying "Hey! Enough of that! It's time to pay homage to a goddess!"