1. A chef-cooked meal at home once a month.
2. The coolest-ever phone.
3. The comfiest-ever new mattress.
4. Real maple syrup.
5. Shoes that are comfy before stylish.
6. Coffee that you grind yourself.
7. Manicures every week.
8. Fabulous teeth.
9. A dress, hat, etc....just because.
10. A catered Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, Grandparents Day, …
11. Nice photos of the motorcycle, time-share, downhill skis, gourmet club, wine of the month, and formal wear you gave up for your kids.
12. The 9 o'clock movie, and not on Saturday morning.
13. A six-pack of massage certificates.