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    Senior Member madamepurl's Avatar
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    I think I learn a lot by just going to the group, if I get stuck they are there to help and I seem to just pick up a lot of good tips and tricks by being with them. On the other hand I like to do my cutting and really tough sewing at home when I can focus.
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    I like both. Fun with a group but relaxes me to sew alone.

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    I enjoy both. Our group meets once a month and we have lunch and a brief business meeting, lot of quilting related talk and chatting. As a new quilter and member of the community, I'm making new friends, learning a lot from the demos and projects, and through them I am able to participate in community charity work. But I do think the personality of the group decides whether or not it is a good and productive experience. I love sewing alone as well and I don't think I would want to go to group quilting more than once a month. I'm basically a loner too and by being a group member, I make myself get out and mingle. And I'm always glad it did.
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    I have a need for both situations. I like the convience of having everything at my fingertips at home, but the resources of more experienced quilters at a group sew. To be honest, I am one of those people that like to put their heads down and sew at group sewing, and get a little annoyed by people that talk the entire time so loud that the whole room can hear them, and they chatter non-stop on topics that may not interest people. I feel these people have a different purpose to attend sew days other than sewing, such as they are lonely or dominated at home by a husband and group sew time gives them some freedom to talk. I try to be understanding, and just smile and nod, but keep on sewing. Now that the "nest is empty" I get a lot more done at home . My favorite time is to go to a friend's house and sew and catch up on our lives. We try to to this a few times each summer

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    Quote Originally Posted by SuzieQuilts View Post
    I feel these people have a different purpose to attend sew days other than sewing, such as they are lonely or dominated at home by a husband and group sew time gives them some freedom to talk.
    Wow, this seems kind of harsh to me. Lonely? Dominated?? Perhaps these people just have a different personality and lifestyle than you, and prefer the social aspect of these get-togethers? The way I look at it, I can get a lot of sewing done at home too, but I really enjoy the company of women who are just like me - wives, mothers, and quilters.

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    I love to sew. But I am a moody sewer. Sometimes I will sew and sew, then others I will go for days without even looking towards the sewing machine. I do better by myself, since I am just learning, and I need to concentrate on what I am doing.

    I am kinda funny where the cleaning comes in though. I feel guilty if I am sewing the the house is a wreck. So, to feel better about it, I clean really good right before I know I am going to start a new project. So it was at least clean when I started. So that was the old method. I switched, and now I clean at least one room in the morning, and then I sew the rest of the day. Seems to be working for me, so far anyway. Hubby is good about cleaning up the kitchen in the evening after we eat. We all know how hard it is to load the dishwasher!!! But I do not complain as that is one thing less I have to do.
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    I enjoy sewing with a group. I listen (and sometimes participate) in conversations but am pretty focused on what I am doing. I do mindless sewing and cutting while I'm there. I can really focus while I'm at a group sew...fewer distractions, lots of opinions/suggestions and a ready source of great fabric!

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    I love getting up an hour before anyone else, sneaking into the sewingroom in jammies, turning on the radio and making my machine sing. Any other time is a mixed affair. My best friend comes over most Saturdays and we really get lots done, but are limited to smaller projects since we sit on opposite sides of the table. The girls bring eats and drinks, make lunch and clear, and we just sew. Ohter than that, some processes of quilting are fairly anti-social and I need to be on my own for them. I do a lot of handwork in order to be with the family in front of the TV, especially needleturn applique and usually 'time' my work so I can join hubby for cricket or rugby. After a quilt is sandwiched, it becomes a one-on-one affair and I don't like to share my space. However, I am a pack animal and thrive in a group - if not clowning around. Once a month we meet in a larger group, but still manage to be quite productive. So, I guess it is a bit of both.

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    I used to sew once a week with a friend. She and I got a lot done during that time. Soon others joined us and it seemed like all of them were constantly asking for my help on something or wanting to use something of mine. Not that I minded or anything but it got to be more of a hassle than anything. When one of the member's husband got sick, we sort of disbanned. Now, my DH and I sew together. (I got him interested and he is worse than I am now.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by #1piecemaker View Post
    I used to sew once a week with a friend. She and I got a lot done during that time. Soon others joined us and it seemed like all of them were constantly asking for my help on something or wanting to use something of mine. Not that I minded or anything but it got to be more of a hassle than anything. When one of the member's husband got sick, we sort of disbanned. Now, my DH and I sew together. (I got him interested and he is worse than I am now.)
    2 people seem to give and take and respect each other's time more. More than two changes the group dynamics too much - we tried it. Once. I love the idea of teaching the DH and spending time with him in this way. Hmmmmm....now what shall we teach the man first......

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