I am trying to figure out how I ever had time to work. Since I retired, I've become the go-to for everyone else. I love that and am glad folks feel that they can depend on me. I agree that housework is no longer a priority. It's just DH and me and our fur children, so we keep things like we like it--not a showplace like I once felt was so important. I still find time for me. If I'm not happy (and quilting makes me happy), then I'm no good for myself or anyone else. I've decided that what I want to do really is important, and I'm going to do it!