Thanks all for the suggestions. My post got edited and the part about me doing this for my ex's Daughter got cut. The post reads like I am making this for my own Daughter haha. I guess the moniter didn't like the part about my ex cheating on me. Oh well.
Anyway, I tryed to search for the disapearing 4 patch tut or some pics. but the search on this site must be down.
My ex said his Daughter's fav color is purple, I will include purple in the quilt, but knowing how kids change their mind, I thought a scrap quilt might suit her in years to come.