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bamamama 02-20-2011 08:11 PM

I was in my sewing room paper piecing and my DH came up stairs to see what I was doing. He spent the entire afternoon with me lining up the fabric pcs. for me to stitch on next, pressing and trimming. I offered to get him going on one of my other machines but he declined. It was awesome to have someone to tear the paper off the back of my blocks and having his company for the afternoon was really nice.

lovequilts 02-20-2011 08:13 PM

That was so nice of him. What a lovey way to spend time together.

Jim's Gem 02-20-2011 08:13 PM

That was really sweet of him!!!
Mine doesn't help me unless I need a quilt held up for pictures or I need him to help me get into some of my totes full of fabrics from the garage, or unless I need his help for sandwiching a quilt. I do ask him about color and design choices. I share my "sewing" room with him and the computers. I enjoy having him in the same room with me and we can talk and I can throw things at him now and then.

sueisallaboutquilts 02-20-2011 08:15 PM

Mine helps me whenever I need to move furniture etc. He's great about it :)

amma 02-20-2011 08:16 PM

How fun for you both :D:D:D

DogHouseMom 02-20-2011 08:20 PM

No he does not and I like it that way. In fact today I screamed "out! out! OUT!" at him because I was counting pieces (had 140+ to count) and he was saying "27, 48, 3, 89". Then he picked up my 100+ 1" x 2" pinned pieces that were sorted by color, held the pin head in his finger tips and asked "what would you do if I pulled this pin out - is it important?" I told him I would stab him with the pin and shooed him out. He can be such a child sometimes. He likes to wind me up.

BUT ... when I ask him to help me photograph a quilt, or fold an extra large piece of fabric, or whatever - he's always a great help.

knlsmith 02-20-2011 08:21 PM

Yup. he helps pick out patterns, fabrics. help me decide what i want to put where on blocks and purses. Now that I have a LA, as soon as it is running properly, I bet he tries it out. he won't the regular machines, especially my 1600 (its really fast and scary to him). But he did make a comment at a show one time how he didn't want to try it because he's afraid he would like it. OMG! What if we had 2 long arms! LMAO

knlsmith 02-20-2011 08:22 PM


Originally Posted by DogHouseMom
No he does not and I like it that way. In fact today I screamed "out! out! OUT!" at him because I was counting pieces (had 140+ to count) and he was saying "27, 48, 3, 89". Then he picked up my 100+ 1" x 2" pinned pieces that were sorted by color, held the pin head in his finger tips and asked "what would you do if I pulled this pin out - is it important?" I told him I would stab him with the pin and shooed him out. He can be such a child sometimes. He likes to wind me up.

BUT ... when I ask him to help me photograph a quilt, or fold an extra large piece of fabric, or whatever - he's always a great help.


ROFL!

CloverPatch 02-20-2011 08:24 PM

ok, If kev did that, I would ask What did you do? or what do you want?

Jill 02-20-2011 08:27 PM

He moves furniture, hang things on the wall, and I do ask his opinion about some quilts, but he has no interest in quilting and I have no interest in having him "help" me with any of it. He has his workshop where he does his woodworking and I stay out of it. Works best that way.

charlotte37830 02-20-2011 08:43 PM

My husband helped make our granddaughter's quilt. I rented a LA at a local cloth store to quilt it. It was harder than I thought it would be. When I told him that I thought he would do a better job than me, he said that he would try it next time. He also wants us to hand quilt one together.

PWinston 02-20-2011 08:52 PM

I've always thought how nice it would be to have a quilt assistant but never, ever considered it being my husband. He has neither the talent or inclination. In fact his only comments re. my quilting is "it's not green", or "it's green". His favorite color is green and that seems to be the only thing that he would notice about a quilt.

Tropical 02-20-2011 09:36 PM

I found my DH in my sewing room today lying on the floor under the table my sewing machine is on. LOL He is figuring out how he wants to cut a hole in the table so he can make my sewing machine set level with the table top. He has started zigzaging my new fabrics before I prewash them so they don't ravel so much. I can't handle them until they have been washed because of the odors in them and my MCS issues. He is going to make a top for my cutting table that will be large enough so I can pin the quilt sandwiches. He will also lenghten the legs on my tables. He is also going to make an ironing table for me. He even vacuums the carpet to get up all of my threads because the machine is too heavy for me. I am so blessed God brought us together over 47 years ago. My DH feels that way, too.

Candace 02-20-2011 10:17 PM

I tell my husband to keep out of my room!

mmonohon 02-20-2011 10:19 PM

No. But my 20 year old son does. If it a big project my ds and his girlfriend both assist.

Flying_V_Goddess 02-20-2011 10:29 PM

Don't have a husband or even a boyfriend to help me in the sewing room. Though my brother did help me with my t-shirt quilt when I was piecing it together...he had helped me arrange them out so that they'd look appealing and then later noticed that I had sewn the shirts in the wrong order! lol. He also let me use his room a few times for quilting purposes, particulary when I was tying the quilt (really I could have done that in my room...really I wanted to hang out and watch cartoons on Adult Swim, but was so pre-occupied with the quilt that I decided to do both).

fidgety 02-21-2011 12:51 AM

oh no no no my DH does not help me. He is scared to death of my sewing room. lol. He will help me if I ask him too but he wont volunteer. :-(

bkb 02-21-2011 01:50 AM

My DH made me an extension table for my machine. It isn't pretty just pressed wood covered with clear vinyl but it works great.almost covers the entire top of the kitchen table.DH does not complain about all my quilting stuff but he had to learn that those little pieces do not get thrown out!!!!!!

mythreesuns 02-21-2011 09:04 AM

My DH helps me with all parts except the sewing. He even comes up with ideas to make it go faster or easier. He even asks if I want to stop at fabric stores.

BellaBoo 02-21-2011 09:10 AM

He may pop in now and again to ask me a question but unless I ask him to help me with something then he would rather not be in there. He doesn't want to be included doing everything I do, thank goodness.

fabric_fancy 02-21-2011 09:12 AM

no i don't like people in my sewing room, DH is strictly used for muscle when i need to rearrange the room.

otherwise its my space just for me and he has his studio just for him and we never invade each others spaces.

JanetM 02-21-2011 10:23 AM

My husband is very good at advising me about colors, fabric choices, and layouts.

He also is the one that suggested buying new bookcases for my sewing room, and spent the time to get everything set up.

He is very supportive and generous♥♥♥

Tinabodina 02-21-2011 10:26 AM

My DH does not help me right now, but he does know how to sew. He has a good eye for color and has in the past helped my match up fabric for a project. He is still working and really doesn't have the time I do, but once he retires, I bet he comes in to help me.

QuiltnCowgirl 02-21-2011 10:27 AM


Originally Posted by DogHouseMom
No he does not and I like it that way. In fact today I screamed "out! out! OUT!" at him because I was counting pieces (had 140+ to count) and he was saying "27, 48, 3, 89". Then he picked up my 100+ 1" x 2" pinned pieces that were sorted by color, held the pin head in his finger tips and asked "what would you do if I pulled this pin out - is it important?" I told him I would stab him with the pin and shooed him out. He can be such a child sometimes. He likes to wind me up.

BUT ... when I ask him to help me photograph a quilt, or fold an extra large piece of fabric, or whatever - he's always a great help.

Your husband sounds like mine...always the "comedian"...or so he thinks lol.

Mary L Booth 02-22-2011 03:34 AM

My DH helped my unsew some borders I was working and they did not come out the way I wanted, but I had to bribe him. He make things for my sewing rm but I can't talk him into sewing.

emptyshellamy 02-22-2011 03:47 AM

No husband anymore (lol, refraining from comment on that) but my boyfriend, no way. Everytime he wanders in the sewing room I swear he chooses the most inopportune time to interupt me with something stupid. He's kind of a clumsy guy, when we were doing some tiling (which neither of us had never done) he was making such a mess I banned him from the project & finished it myself. It came out great, I didn't want to treat him like a child but we'd still be cleaning the mess off the floor if he'd done it all, lol...

Mary O 02-22-2011 04:00 AM

My sewing room is my escape from my husband and he knows it too.Great guy and love him but too much talking about politics and daily news.Thinks my room is too messy,have too much fabric,do I really need 3 machines?Spring hurry up and save me so he can be outside.My 2 big dogs are allowed in my room.....

Juliebelle 02-22-2011 04:29 AM

Mine will help me move things around and will give advice when I ask him for his opinion.

justlooking 02-22-2011 04:51 AM

It is nice to have a quilting assistant!

supergma 02-22-2011 05:13 AM

My DH spends a lot of time in the sewing room with me. He insisted there be a chair there for him, and no material stacked on it. We visit while I sew and he pores thru the quilt books.

pieces 02-22-2011 05:26 AM

My DH selddom comes into my sewing room, I sew during the day while he is at work. DH holds my finished quilts up when I need to take a picture. LOL But he's a great maechanic and keeps my Envoy clean, changes the oil, and buys new tires. :D

bgullett 02-22-2011 05:28 AM

You have a wonderful husband! Mine peaks in, says hi, plays with the dog and then off he goes. He did help me stretch, hold a quilt one time when I was pinning.

Arleners 02-22-2011 05:59 AM

The only time my DH comes into the sewing room is to tell me that he is home from work and ask what's for dinner?
It must be nice to work alongside your partner like that. We do home improvements together, I use my quilting rulers for measuring wallpaper, wood and stuff. We ususally have a good time with that, but he steers clear of what he considers "the womanly arts"

Carrie 02-22-2011 06:09 AM

My DH has absolutely no interest in what I'm doing in the sewing room.

Deborah12687 02-22-2011 06:17 AM

My husband has helped me a few times by laying out the blocks in order for me and stacking them up by rows. I am trying to get him to learn how to sew but he doesn't want to learn.

Jagsd3 02-22-2011 06:17 AM

My hubby if asked will help,give suggestions,opinions, and always helps with little fix up ideas.He holds quilts for pictures,makes adjustments to machines if needed, and fixes things if needed, and is always willing to make a new shelf or whatever. I usually sew during the day while the guys are all gone, but they usually do not touch a sewing machine unless boredom has set in and then it must be extreme boredom. When I was setting up my Sewing Studio he was there helping fold fabric and organize too.

Annaquilts 02-22-2011 06:25 AM

He helps me in building stuff for me, restoring vintage sewing machines, co-designing templates, marking the quilt, moving stuff, some times strip paper piecing on adding machine paper and keeping me company.


The strip piecing he does on a vintage Singer 301

http://www.quiltingboard.com/t-56940-1.htm

Annaquilts 02-22-2011 06:29 AM


Originally Posted by supergma
My DH spends a lot of time in the sewing room with me. He insisted there be a chair there for him, and no material stacked on it. We visit while I sew and he pores thru the quilt books.

Sweet! My DH is just starting to hang in my room mostly before he heads off to bed. He'll check what I am working on, eats mixed nuts and drinks his dark beer. Kind of cozy.

Dae Kuczma 02-22-2011 07:09 AM

My husband is VERY supportive of my time spent sewing. He grew up with a mother who continually sewed, canned, baked, etc. He generally helps me cut pieces for making quilts. I sit and sew, he stands and cuts at the cutting table. Works out really well........can't get any better than that.

grannypat7925 02-22-2011 09:07 AM

Mine helps a lot with lots of things, but he doesn't do anything to help with my sewing and I'm just as glad. Would be nice tho' to spend that time together!


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