All I can say is... you have YOUR SPACE & he needs to stay in HIS SPACE... ;)
Isn't the winter blues of cabin fever great... not!

Good for you! Once many many moons ago LOL, when I was still very naive (in my 30s) trying to juggle a job and six kids (3 of which are his), my husband criticized me for the way I organized my kitchen cupboards. Although young but wise, I told him, "Fine! You organize my kitchen and I will go out and organize your garage/workspace the way I want it to be!" After more than 43 years, that subject has never come up again! So, I am with you and I applaud your effort to "own" your space. Yolanda Wood River

My sweet husband is VERY neat... me not so much some times. the other day he was amazed at the huge mess in my sewing room, only because he had to move so much to use the laptop.... I told him that creation was messy; he laughed.