I couldn't do it, I had to fix it! So I didn't even like the border, so here is what I did. I really like it and it will even be better when it is quilted. Amazing what you can do when you feel better, it really shows in the quilting.
The white border is the one I put the rows on wrong, notice all the yellow rows all on one side.
The blue border is the updated and corrected quilt top. Even though it will go to charity I wanted it right. I have yet to quilt it.