As for goodies I send, oh honey!!! I look for the cute little holiday shaped bath fizzies (the ones you throw in the tub and it softens the water and fizzes...ah...heaven), I get the little magnetic note pads, I find CUTE pens to write with, I seek out the cute straight pins, I look for buttons (if my person likes buttons) and I find out if mine is a coffee fan and if so, I send a little mini bag of coffee from Texas. I have fun!!!! And...with the money that is left over, I get hershey kisses and stuff the box full, so every empty space is filled. If I'm your secret santa, be careful upon opening the box, it will be full and may burst when opening. Also, no sharp objects to open.