Friend too please!

Thread Tools
 
Old 03-20-2013, 10:45 PM
  #1  
Junior Member
Thread Starter
 
mrsk's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Springfield, IL
Posts: 164
Red face Friend too please!

After see the post from Seattle, I would like to put "out there" that I am also looking for a friend. I am in Springfield, IL & I have thought about going to the local quilt guild, but I am not very good (terrified) at meeting new people in such a large group. Is there a member here on the board I could get to know a little here, & then maybe go to a meeting with? P.S. I am 48 yrs. & I have been sewing 40 years & quilting for the last few years.
mrsk is offline  
Old 03-20-2013, 10:54 PM
  #2  
Super Member
 
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: Chula Vista CA
Posts: 7,336
Default

Sure wish we lived close - I love to quilt with friends but hate large crowds - even if i know most of the people. My friend that used to go to the guild with quit going, so I did too.
quiltingcandy is offline  
Old 03-21-2013, 03:21 AM
  #3  
Member
 
crazythread's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2010
Location: MIDDLE RIVER, MD USA
Posts: 77
Default

Sorry I do not live closer (I am in Maryland) but I had to share my experience with you. Several years ago I was in your position. I wanted desperately to belong to a group of quilters but was terrified about going to my local quilt guild alone. The first month I chickened out but the second time I held my breath and marched on into the meeting ALONE. It was the best thing I ever did. The president greeted me and introduced me around. the people were so nice and welcoming I felt right at home. Remember these ladies LOVE the same thing you do and all QUILTERS are wonderful people....So march on
crazythread is offline  
Old 03-21-2013, 04:09 AM
  #4  
Super Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Carlisle, PA
Posts: 1,964
Default

wish we lived closer - I'm out on Long Island. I find even walking into my LQS alone very intimidating! I know I can pretty much hold my own in my quilting, but you kind of get that feeling that your work isn't quite 'good enough' and others will be judging you, so I tend to stay in my comfort zone (my home studio). Hey, we can be 'virtual buddies' !!
Debbie C is offline  
Old 03-21-2013, 10:59 AM
  #5  
mah
Junior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: North Dakota
Posts: 125
Default

Have you checked out any local quilt shops to see if they hold "open sewing" days? Usually you just work on your own UFO's. That is a good way to start small and not be so overwhelmed.
mah is offline  
Old 03-21-2013, 12:30 PM
  #6  
Super Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Hattiesburg,MS 39402
Posts: 1,458
Default

I live in south Mississippi but let me tell you what happened to me. I did belong to a guild about 45 miles away and drove there once a month for 6 years, then gas, well you know. I had not belonged to a guild for a while when a friend told me that there was one locally that meet the third Monday of the month at 6:00 pm. I went and joined, three months later I am vice president in charge of the programs. So far I've come up with some good programs but I have until October before the next vp takes office. Next month we are going to play quilt bingo, I can't wait.
reginalovesfabric is offline  
Old 03-21-2013, 04:05 PM
  #7  
Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Missouri
Posts: 39
Default

I seem to be the closest here so far. I live in the very northeast part of Missouri. I am new to the area and would love to find a quilting friend. I wish we were closer sounds like we are looking for the samething.
ecmlbrant is offline  
Old 03-21-2013, 04:51 PM
  #8  
Super Member
 
kathdavis's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2010
Location: Blue Springs, Missouri
Posts: 2,481
Default

Originally Posted by reginalovesfabric View Post
I live in south Mississippi but let me tell you what happened to me. I did belong to a guild about 45 miles away and drove there once a month for 6 years, then gas, well you know. I had not belonged to a guild for a while when a friend told me that there was one locally that meet the third Monday of the month at 6:00 pm. I went and joined, three months later I am vice president in charge of the programs. So far I've come up with some good programs but I have until October before the next vp takes office. Next month we are going to play quilt bingo, I can't wait.
Reginalovesfabric, I just wanted to pass on an idea our VP of programs had at our guild. At least once a year, we organize a school house quilt meeting. So instead of bringing in a speaker, we have 4-5 members do a simple demo at a table. Members can move from table to table learning something new. Since I have been quilting for only four years or so, I always learn something at the school house meeting.

We are also trying for the first time, an ice cream social meeting and during this time, members will rent a table for $10.00 to sell some of their extra stash, tools, etc. I'm anxious to see how that goes over.
kathdavis is offline  
Old 03-22-2013, 06:14 AM
  #9  
Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2011
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posts: 93
Default

Would be friends but Australia is a bit far away. Would you like to be my Internet friend?
mummyismean is offline  
Old 03-22-2013, 06:32 AM
  #10  
Super Member
 
BuzzinBumble's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: near Niagara Falls, NY
Posts: 3,075
Default

Wouldn't it be great if somewhere on the QB there was a section for meeting new friends? For finding email friends or local buddies. Q-harmony? ...LOL. I bet a lot of folks would like that.
BuzzinBumble is offline  
Related Topics
Thread
Thread Starter
Forum
Replies
Last Post
DonnaFreak
Main
20
11-22-2014 07:52 AM
bethanywoman
General Chit-Chat (non-quilting talk)
52
06-12-2011 10:15 PM
diogirl
General Chit-Chat (non-quilting talk)
51
05-10-2011 01:46 PM
weezie
General Chit-Chat (non-quilting talk)
18
06-16-2010 05:56 AM
ruthruff3
Pictures
31
05-28-2010 05:50 PM

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



FREE Quilting Newsletter