Congratulations for your wonderful attitude. Fires can be devastating. But life is precious and material things (most of them) can be replaced. I just love your sentence that says "That it is not what I have that defines me but it is what I can do that makes me whole."
My daughter is a Christian counsellor and I remember going with her to a girls lock up facility a few years ago. One thing that she said to these girls has been forever embedded in my mind and has always helped me to get thru the "tragedies" of life. She said this, "What happens to you in life is no where near as important as what you do with what happens to you in life."
GOD bless you.