My prayers go out to you. I know this sounds trite at a time like this but time will heal. My first husband lost his battle with cancer in June of 87. Time has healed the wound although the scar will always be there. Just stay focused on Adrian, be prepared for some "acting out", and get counseling for him if needed. Although sometimes children are far more accepting than we are. {{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}} to both of you. Just get through each day at a time for right now.
Alfreda