Just to clarify, I really do like working together with my DH. It's time together seeing how I work 7a-7p and he works the midnight shift.
We've also painted just about every room together and built 3 chicken pens together. The roof will be tackled some time next year. That one I'm not really looking forward to, as I get nervous about being on the third wrung from the bottom on a 6' ladder.
At times I'll suggest something, sometimes he likes my way of thinking, other times, not so much. Later on, he'll say 'You know we probably should do it this way." Which is what I stated or was thinking, but I just say "That's a great idea." It works best that way. No need to argue.