My husband goes on lots of cleaning binges,usually in his domain which is always spotless anyway! I have been known to call him by his mother's name as she was the queen of clean! I grew up in a clean home, too, but much more relaxed and less of a ritual. Oh, it takes a lot to make 2 people blend and love to the end. And our children are so like us as they begin a married life and hit the shock of working together!
Enjoy your evening together!