When I met my hubby he had a beard and mustache. He always kept it trimmed and it looked really nice. He worked at a power plant and one year he had to pass a test to be "respirator ready". Well a respirator will not seal with a beard, so he had to shave it off. I laughed so hard I thought I would pee myself. I had never seen him without his facial hair. Since then he has been clean shaven and I have gotten use to his new look.
As long as the facial hair is kept clean and neat - then I love it! Scraggly doesn't do a thing for me.