I've always believed I'm a positive person; the glass is half full and not half empty. So, I'm looking at this as a positive change.
I do have to add something. I've wondered for a while why I've stayed with this site. Someone posted something a few pages back that clicked with me. I've been in groups where I was totally ignored. Here, when I post a new topic, someone will respond; it is like family here. Also, I've only been here a few months and I've already made some great friends.