In answer to your original question, the answer is no. I figure if was used for a while, then great--it can go to some closet somewhere or passed on to a kid or sent to a resale shop. What other kinds of gifts that we give (even if costing big bucks), get sent back to the original giver after the receiver dies?
I just figure if they had fun opening it, I had fun giving it, then what happens after that is...??who knows?? I'm off to another project and don't really want to spend my time considering the matter.