Ouchhh, that would royally tee me off! So sorry your quilt was so badly mistreated and unappreciated. Rather than loose a friend over this I would come clean and express my hurt. Some people are just not aware of how expensive quilts are to make not counting all the the love and hours poured into one. She may have just thought you whipped it up in a jiffy...she needs a quilt education for sure!