These stories are so sad. We could write a book! I am so sorry for those who have gifted quilts and seen them used so inappropriately! Folks have NO idea. I'm making a quilt for a "thank you" to a couple who will let us stay with them for a week. Fair trade, as I have $80 in just the top fabrics. And I won't know how it's used as we live too far awayl That's probably a good thing.