Marybeth our thoughts are with you. When we got Commander, I didn't want another dog. But it was "over my dead body" that he came to us. Then 10.5 years later when we had to put him to sleep because he was so sick, I cried the hardest. Still have pictures of him up - he was a beautiful collie - but so sick with cancer.
Today didn't turn out like I had planned. We were going to go visit the memory unit, but instead went to a Dr. apt. Everything is fine, but Mom had some coughing issues and they were worried that it would/could be much worse by Monday. So hopefully next week .....
The rhubabr bars sound wonderful. Love cream cheese in things. Hope there are some in the club car or at least the recipe. Tonight I am going to have a little glass of wine - maybe even a cheesecake bar!!!!!