I wish that I could always send goodies too. My reasons are a bit different though. For me, it's having the time and energy to go to the store usually (I work full time and have 2 side jobs too, plus I suffer from depression). I asked Dusty to pick up a mug and a box to go with this swap. He comes home with a postal box that is 14"x12"x3-1/2", and he didn't get a mug! So, I got a box from work and made a run to Wally World (Walmart) at lunch to get one. I didn't find what I wanted to match this project, but I found one I loved, so I got it anyway. For anyone who is keeping notes, all our dishes are that Asian inspired square red & black motif, so if anyone wants to send me a red & black mug, it'll be used lots! I have to kinda hide the others for "we're out of clean cups" emergencies because it doesn't match in the cabinet, so the resident engineer goes all wonky on me.