A comment to a"GERBIE"......... I loved you message. In reading it, I thought I had written it because you and your DH sound so very much like me and my DH. The only difference is that in Aug. (the 27th) we will celebrate our 53rd anniversary, just 10 years earlier than you but I have to say "DITTO" to everything you said. We may have had a few more disagreements than you guys, having only one, but many times are so minor, neither of us can remember them, but guess it breaks up the monotony and never gets boring. And I too thank God every day in my prayers for lending him to me, for all the good times we shared the past 53 years. Thanks GERBIE for your story.