Mine complains that I only clean up "his stuff" when cleaning. My reply is when he cleans he can put away what he wants to put away. As long as I'm doing the cleaning I will put away what I want to put away. All in all he is a keeper though - I maintain the house and he maintains all the vehicles. We share work around the farm - he can fix anything that needs fixing. We've been married 47 years so I guess we've adjusted to each other's ways.