i did the same sort of thing, with a ring. it was money from my dad, and most of it had been distributed amongst my kids, already--so my turn for a treat. i love the ring, and think of my dad every time i see it.
we have a 'joke/half-serious" motto in the family--"life is short. buy the shoes." our family is not foolish with our funds--but if it is something that will enhance your life, get it. no, it's not always shoes. sometimes it's only a half yard of fabric, or a special treat in the bakery. but if it makes your heart smile, it can't be all bad! in august, i lost a friend who dutifully worked until she was 70, and had been taking care of herself, eating right, losing weight, exercising, taking care of her ill hubby. i "talked" to her online on a tuesday. friday, she felt a little icky, and went to the emergency room. sunday, she died from congestive heart failure. she was 71.
life is short. buy the "shoes"...