I've been working since I was 12, and my aunt knew this. I ws very responsible and started paying my own med bills at 16, so I bought a ceiling fan for the living room, a new hot water heater, an electric box for outside (so we cn plug in lights), a cocktail ring, 2 50 cts, and the tennis bracelet 5 cts. I've sold jewelry for yrs, so I get it at cost. I also bought a 5.5 custom cut trillion shaped cor-de-rosa morganite, it's pink beryl. emerald is green beryl, so you could say a pink emerald. that was her favorite color. I also bought my son a bomber jkt and lined it with fur, and bought him a fur scarf, (it gets cold on long island), oh and a 1929 fw machine and an emberoidery machine. she'd be happy how I spent it. and I got reunited with my cousins, something I know she wanted. life is too short not to enjoy your blessings.