Dear Robyn, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry you lost your DH. Get that move over and done and enjoy your daughter and grandchildren. I live down the street from mine . It took me 18 months to get brave enough to sell my NJ home and move close to my son and family...now 4 yrs later it has been a very good move. (MY DIL found my house for me..she is so precious.) Take your time and be good to yourself.