I helped start a guild 25 years ago and we are still going strong. Not everyone is perfect but we do try to make allowances for differences of opinion. We do have one lady who insists on absolute perfection (and does wonderful work), however most of us just do our own thing and don't worry about it. You get out of it what you put in. Enjoy and contribute to those activities that you like and respectfully sit out of the ones you don't want to do. I don't like round robins or any time restricted activities because sometimes I feel like working on them and sometimes I don't (health issues) and I don't want others waiting on me to finish things. I participate as much as I can and enjoy the friendship and show and tell. It's been a very good ride. Try again and good luck.