My deepest sympathies on the passing of both parents.
I am not in the same position but have been thinking so much lately about the need to clear/clean out stuff so that my kids don't have to deal with it. It's hard to come to the realization that no body wants our stuff! I try to give things to the kids now but there is little interest. So I know that when we are gone it will most likely go to dump (or yard sale). So why don't I get rid of it now and enjoy the freedom that surely would come with a cleaner less cluttered home???
Rhonda