I have one grown daughter and no grandchildren. My daughter has a good job and can buy herself anything she wants. I decided several years ago that I would not buy her Christmas presents anymore. We make a date to go out for a nice meal, maybe a movie or stay in and cook and spend quality time together. We still celebrate birthdays with gifts and meals, but that is much easier to do because we don't have that crush of shoppers for our birthdays. My brothers and I do not exchange Christmas gifts or birthday gifts. Cards only.