Thank you to all, I have tucked away the quilt for now, I haven't showed it to her yet! my sad girl is still thankful to have her boys/family, she is just one of those people that sees the good in everything and everybody, my biggest treasure! The quilt will be put away for now and fingers crossed, they will try again. However, if not, as she says, she is luckier than lots of people so she therefore inspires me more every day! Again, thank you all for your comments, prayers, etc!