Not sure if we are getting together this year, not sure who will be in town, one daughter and hubby are vegan, married son avoids red meats, but eats others, his wife is almost vegetarian, and their daughter is only 20 months, I usually have some ham for anyone who would want it and take it if we go to one of the kids houses. I have always left dessert to the chocolate and candy in the baskets.
And if everyone is going out of town maybe we will check out a restaurant and start a new tradition.