Kiffie -- when we have a swap that says "Partner's Choice," then that's where everyone should be waiting to hear what their partner says about their likes & dislikes. When it's "Maker's Choice," it's up to the maker &, if she's inclined to wait to hear her partner's preferences, that's certainly okay! So, in this case, I leave that up to you. And we don't mind putting in a little something along with the mug rug.
If anybody feels differently about what I just said, feel free to express your opinions. But that's the way the swap was set up originally, & I haven't changed it.
But, if someone feels she doesn't want to do extras, then maybe impart that information to your partner so she doesn't feel funny about sending things you don't want and vs.? Just a thought.
Feel free to express your opinions, ladies!