I hand washed the Sues and the lace with a color catcher before I began the quilt. Because I really want the crinkled look, I think I will soak it in the tub like Bree suggested. Since I pre-washed, can I leave the lace on the quilt and soak it? That way I can begin the process of anchoring the lace. It will also give me an idea of how it washes together.
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