Hi, Sue:
I don't know the pattern for this block. I Googled "quilt pattern for men" and went through them. I chose a few that I like and can do (I am not a good quilter). I made a few trial blocks and settled for this. I personally like the orange/yellow sash color. I guess I prefer warm colors in general. If you looked closely, you'd find I add a few fabrics that have dark brown, dark red to the blocks. I figured that I will be the one look at the quilt most time, I want to please my eyes.
Sorry for your loss...
I hope making this quilt could bring some closure.