I offered to make a quilt for both of my Daughter-in-Laws ( in addition to the several I had already gifted them). I took them to the fabric store and they picked out the fabrics and paid for them. It was an eye opener for them. One sent me a gift card and asked me to make one for her friend. I was happy to do it. She sent me another gift card after it was finished. My daughters already knew to buy the fabric if they wanted something special. Its a process of education even in the family and I only sell quilt tops because I love piecing and quilt if I must.