Oh! I so agree with your statement. When DH tries to help I always have to say, "Just do what I ask. You do not have to invent a faster way or a different way to do it. Then come back and ask what else you can do." He is an engineer and always tries to do the task differently, does not know how to cook, and makes such a mess. I work better with my oldest son. Youngest son socializes a bunch and forgets what I ask him to do!!!