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Old 08-13-2011, 10:09 PM
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My cat does that too when she wants attention.
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Old 08-13-2011, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Anael
Loraine, my cat does the same. She's like your cat, very affectionate and sweet most of the time. But I never know when she attacks me. I got her from a shelter 5 1/2 years ago and from her behavior we (the vet and I) think she's abused by her previous owner. I've tried everything, including meds but it doesn't help. Right now she's on meds again but she still attacks me. Only solution is putting her down but I don't want to do that because she doesn't deserve that. But I have to admit, sometimes I'm so fed up with her behavior!
But in any case, she knows you love her. It's just her demeanor to have an ugly streak, unfortunately.. Just keep on loving her..

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Old 08-13-2011, 10:43 PM
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I got a kitty from the shelter about 6 weeks ago and he is usually very sweet. Loves to be held, petted, follows me every where.He thinks I'm his mother. But, then there are times he gets frisky and plays hard. He will grab my arm with his claws and then bite me. Like he caught something and is fighting it. I have to keep taking him off my arm and putting him on the floor. He finally stops after 3 or 4 times. I firmly tell him NO !
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Old 08-13-2011, 10:53 PM
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I had a biter. Learn her biting signals. Every time you see one, ignore her completely. Turn your back to her. If she's in your lap, put her on the floor. Without emotion or stress. You have to be consistent. My cat was an attention whore. Hated being ignored and quickly figured out what was going on.

Also if she doesn't like being petted in a certain area or manner, don't pet her there or that way.

Get a toy on a stick and play for ten minutes a day. Or, teach her to fetch. Exercise helps.

Good luck!
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be very careful with cat scratches and bites, they can cause bad infections.

talk to your vet he might just want more attention
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Old 08-14-2011, 02:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Pins n' Ndls
Could anyone tell me why my cat bites me ? She also scratches. Sometimes it's minor but last night she took a good bite out of my arm! I cannot give her up even though some have suggested that. She was given to me by someone who got her from a shelter when she was about one year they tell me. The previous owner said Bunny ( cat) used to chew on fiberglass ? Think they kept her in the basement. Most of the time she follows me everywhere, even walks all over my keyboard, etc. Very affectionate mostly. I am very upset as I love her very much! We have had her for over four years and would like to have her much longer.
You give a lot of clues as to the reasons for her behavior. But, can you provide a little more detail? What are you/she doing at the time? Playing? Sitting? Did she just jump up and bite for no reason? Has she had a complete checkup by a vet? The poor thing has had four homes in her short life (that you know of), so she may have abandonment issues -- yes, they do get them. If she bites while playing, its because that's how she was played with as a kitten and it was allowed. It may be cute when they're little, but they do grow up, but not out of that behavior. I ask about the vet check because she might have some underlying old injury and maybe you're touching her in a place that hurts? You've received lots of good advice from other posters --- show her gently who's boss, call her out on her bad behavior, love her and reassure her that you're not going anywhere. And, maybe resign yourself to the fact that she just is not a cuddlepuss. I have one like that...it's okay to be in the same room, but don't touch! Good luck, and thank you for not giving up on her.
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I don't think you have to get rid of your furbaby. Try one of the things the others told you.
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Old 08-14-2011, 07:41 AM
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I had to keep a squirt bottle handy, even when bed because mine would suddenly switch from cuddling and purring to attacking. It helped. An even better help has been a little sister for him. Someone had a cat who was being abused by her 4 year old son and I adopted her. Now the 2 cats are so busy wrestling with each other that he doesn't think about attacking me. I had thought about having him put down, but love him too much. I frequently got my bed sheets bloody and had serious cuts and bruises.
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Apparently I have lots of furbaby lovers for quilting friends! Can't thank you all enough for responding to my plea for help. This last time she bit me , she came to me and wanted to be petted. Before I could even do that she leaned over and did her thing! We are both retired people and outside of doctor visits and food, medicine trips, we don't leave her alone. Immediately after doing it she runs and hides from me. But no fear, I won't give her up, just keep a bottle of peroxide and antibiotic ointment handy!!!
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Old 08-14-2011, 08:16 AM
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You have to discipline for the biting its the only way. If you let them do it they will think its okay, some do love bite, but those don't hurt or break skin. If this is a bite bite it will take time and you will just have to work on it.
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