early bird

french silk or banana cream pie

banana cream pie

local wedding or destination wedding

destination wedding (family all far away!https://cdn.quiltingboard.com/images/smilies/wave.gif)

floor lamp to table lamp

floor lamp

Kleenex box with or without cover

without

cole slaw or lettuce salad

lettuce salad

receive flowers or a plant

Plant

Snail mail or email

email

host scavenger hunt or Easter egg hunt

host scavenger hunt

slippers-----boot style, slip-on, or clog style

slip-ons

paper or fabric napkins for guests