Sorry for everyone's loss. This isn't the same but remember you have your friends on the board to talk to.

It's been 10 years now, he was only 53. I console myself by deciding his job on earth was finished, mine wasn't yet. Our 5 kids have become wonderful, close adults and he would be proud of them. You are not alone, and don't let the road you are on overwhelm you. There is a reason to every season in life, even the dark ones. We are all here for you!

I lost mine 2 yrs in May we were married for 29 yrs and miss him every day I think the hardest was when I would take his old car out to a cruse and some one always came up and said it is not the same with out him or when I went some where and seen something we talked about and it changed come home to tell him and only the dog was there and now the dog is gone (she was my fur baby)

Ok, everyone, now there are tears in my eyes. I am going to go give my DH an extra hug. You are all very brave ladies.


{{{{{HUGS}}}}}

I'm a widower, and lost my wife and friend a year and a half ago. Still think of her most days, but life is for the living, and we must all go on.

Lanny

so sorry for your losses. makes me think of how my mom must feel most days. dad died in 1986 when they were married just shy of 39 years. i'll be married to my dh 40 years this fall God willing.