Recently, I was diagnosed with A.A.A.D.D.
Age Activated Attention Deficit Disorder. This is how it manifests: I decide to water my garden. As I turn on the hose in the driveway, I look over at my car and decide it needs washing. As I start toward the garage, I notice mail on the porch table that I brought up from the mail box earlier. I decide to go through the mail before I wash the car. I lay my car keys on the table, put the junk mail in the garbage can under the table, and notice that the can is full. So I decide to put the bills back on the table & take out the garbage first. But then I think, since I'm going to be near the mailbox when I take out the garbage anyway, I may as well pay the bills first. I take my check book off the table, and see that there is only one check left. My extra checks are in my desk in the study, so I go inside the house to my desk where I find the can of Pepsi I'd been drinking. I'm going to look for my checks, but first I need to push the Pepsi aside so that I don't accidentally knock it over. The Pepsi is getting warm. I decide to put it in the refrigerator to keep it cold. As I head toward the kitchen with the Pepsi, a vase of flowers on the counter catches my eye. They need water. I put the Pepsi on the counter and discover my reading glasses that I've been searching for all morning. I decide I better put them back on my desk, but first I'm going to water the flowers. I set the glasses back down on the counter, fill a container with water and suddenly spot the TV remote someone had left it on the kitchen table. I realize that tonight when we go to watch TV, I'll be looking for the remote, but I won't remember that it's on the kitchen table, so I decide to put it back in the den where it belongs. But first I'll water the flowers. I pour some water in the flowers. Quite a bit of it spills on the floor. So, I set the remote back on the table, get some towels and wipe up the spill. Then I head down the hall trying to remember what the heck I was planning to do. At the end of the day: the car isn't washed the bills aren't paid there is a warm can of Pepsi sitting on the counter the flowers don't have enough water, there is still only 1 check in my check book, I can't find the remote, I can't find my glasses, and I don't remember what I did with the car keys. Then, when I try to figure out why nothing got done, I'm really baffled because I know I was busy all day, and I'm really tired. I realize this is a serious problem, and I'll try to get some help for it, but first I'm tired, I think I'll go sit and log onto the quilting board. Do me a favor. Forward this message to everyone you know, because I don't remember who the heck I've sent it to. Don't laugh -- if this isn't you yet, your day is coming!! |
haa haa, welcome to MY world!!! I am actually ADHD, and take no medication for it... it puts out my creative fire... so I use it to my advantage, just have to learn to channel it in the right direction (and have taught hubby to redirect me when I am off-task)... We call those brain-fart days...
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Been there, done that and I'm ONLY 41, its hereditary I get it from my mother who is 76. LOL. My other problem is my husband aged 28 has ADHD and on meds but still has problems. Oh well at least it keeps life interesting.
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I laugh every time I read this because it describes my days exactlly!! Thanks!
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Fun isn't it. As a life long ADHD and now age complicated/related attention deficit, the condition is very freeing, creative and sometimes frustrating. Mostly fun
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Too funny because it describes me to a tee. But I stay anchored by keeping busy with my quilting.
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Originally Posted by fabric whisperer
haa haa, welcome to MY world!!! I am actually ADHD, and take no medication for it... it puts out my creative fire... so I use it to my advantage, just have to learn to channel it in the right direction (and have taught hubby to redirect me when I am off-task)... We call those brain-fart days...
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Welcome to my world. I always say I have undiagnosed ADD, I say when I was a kid in school it was "sit down and shut up". If I dont have 10 projects going at once, and 5 thoughts in my head at once it just wouldnt be a normal day. I too use post it notes, I attach them to the handles of my pocketbook for when I have to stop somewhere on the way home from work, and am a list queen because I get so easily distracted. As my daughter will say to me "stay on task" lol.
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ADD? Wow, I thought I was just a very organized multi-tasker!!!! LOL. I have a neighbor who is in her 70's (I am 58 and retired now) who says she is going to teach me to start and finish one project at a time.HAHAHAHA. Before I was forced to retire, I was a director of admissions for a tech school. I was hired to build a brand new program. Well, I built it to 7 locations in 3 states. My multitasking skills came in very handy with all that traveling and keeping track of everything and everyone. I am like you all, if I don't have 10 things going on and a bizillion thoughts racing through my head, I am out of my zone!!!! Never diagnosed with ADD but I am sure I have it!!!!
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LOL So that's what I have. I'll have to call you Dr. Late:). Thanks
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You mean to tell me there is a medical name for what I've been doing for years?
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It takes a lot of practice to get there. I remember talking on the phone while peeling potatoes while watching 2 of the kids playing in the yard, one doing homework and thr toddler opening the pots and pan cupboard. I call that multitasking,
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I am well aquainted with......wait, I have to go back and reread the post!! :lol: :lol:
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Ditter you are a scream!
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Sounds like me, too.
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That's me too.
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This, too, is ME!
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It's my way of life, I just call it mult-tasking
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Better go check to see if the water is still running outside.!!!!
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This is how most of my days are too.
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Oh I have to say this is me to a T...I really love the way you said it too. Now I know why I am so tired at night and nothing seemed to get done...Not even my quilting.
By the way ladies I love this site I have learned so much from you all and am having a wonderful time trying out some of these quilting ideas you all have given me and the o thers as well... Thank you everyone... |
That is hilarious. And sounds just like me! :)
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Is that why I have about 16 projects started and nothing finished?
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Oh, so true. Just had to read it to DH because that is happening already and we are only in our 60s! :lol:
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sorry I don't understand what the problem is ?? sounds like a normal day to me lol
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Originally Posted by Greyhound Mom
That's me too.
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I have that only we call it CRS (cannt remmber shit)
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I have to share this with DH because he is always telling me that I can't chew gum and walk at the same time. Because I can't follow through with anything. Now I know that I am not the only one.
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My daughter just gave me a bumper sticker for my car: I'm speeding because I have to get there before I forget where I'm going". Sometimes its true!!!
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Ditter you are a hoot (whatever that is) I din't no the older we get the worse we get. I thought we aged graciously like a fine wine. I guess I am in trouble
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I've been going through this for the past couple of years wondered why I never seem to get much accomplished. Now I understand...Lol!!
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Originally Posted by cjmat
I've been going through this for the past couple of years wondered why I never seem to get much accomplished. Now I understand...Lol!!
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Originally Posted by Ditter43
I am well aquainted with......wait, I have to go back and reread the post!! :lol: :lol:
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Hey me too! Now I have a diagnosis.
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I always have lots of things going on at the same time also
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