What will the peron be able to do?

I really like the idea of a bag that can be hung on the side rail. Sometimes it is so hard to reach the table or stand near the bed!!

An inexpensive small lamp and an extension cord. My MIL was in hospital for weeks and we shared staying with her. The small lamp was a wonderful idea. We could read by it, she could sleep and was just enough light for the nurses to check on her without turning on the bright lights in the room.
mechanical pencils, not regular pencils. Ther is no way to sharpen pencils.

thank you ladies so much... great ideas.... now to assemble.

A portable cd player with headphones. Maybe a cd of favorite music.

The package of wet wipes are a good idea or baby wipes. Baby wipes can be used to clean hands or face. Small, disposable toothbrushes with tooth paste already on them. Sometimes it is difficult to get up to brush teeth. Small mechanical pencil sharpener. Painters tape to put cards and well wishes on the wall or locker/closet door.
Warm socks, personal hand lotion, essential oils or candle (unlit) for scent. Travel size Febreeze, extra batteries,small amount of change for vending machine, nonperishable snacks.
The idea. Od a bag to hand on the side rail is wonderful---things are close at hand. Sometimes the overbred table or nightstand are out of reach. I also like the idea of a small clip on light. A small mirror comes in handy.
Sounds silly, but something soft and cuddly to rest a hand with an IV on, or to place just so in the small of the back, or sometimes as an extra something under the head.
Good luck to you both! You are a great friend.

small flashlight, small mirror, brush, comb, dry / no water needed shampoo, soft kleenex tissues

that shampoo is a must

Has anyone mentioned a small (lap-sized) quilt, for the foot of the bed? A bright splash of color can brighten the entire room.
The hosp. usually provides lotions and cleansers but not lip balm.
If the friend has longer hair, hair fasteners are a must.

Nice warm and regular socks are essential; that way he can control his comfort a little bit. If the hospital allows it, Neesie's suggestion of a lap quilt would be nice also. I would think wet wipes would be greatly appreciated.

how about a rice bag?