I had a sale and we went back and forth and she was sick and then we went back and forth.. and now she has disappeared. what do i do ?

who do we contact and how do we contact moderator of this group?

I would repost the item for sale.

I had a buyer once disappear...she turned up 4 months later..I still had her item in the envelope..never reposted it...sealed the deal last week..nearly 5 months after first contact...

would I do it again...NO...but there was something about this panel...I wanted to keep it, so when she showed back up, I knew it was meant to be hers!

contact moderator, PatriceJ and send her a private message and here is the link to send her a private message

http://www.quiltingboard.com/user_pr...jsp?usernum=30

Just be glad the vanishing took place while you still have the item. Moderators are listed in bold in the list of everyone online if you want to contact one. I don't see how a moderator could force someone to buy an item, though.

It may just be part of selling things. In every sale I have had, there is usually one or two people who want something and never bother to respond again, or if they do, it is usually a long excuse as to why they haven't paid yet.

I've had the same thing happen over the last two sales I've had. The same person and they have requested about $80 worth of fabric. Hmmm, I wonder if it's the same person??

If they haven't sent you any money, I don't see why you couldn't repost. In a store, they will only hold something for 1-3 days, at most, especially without a deposit. If they don't contact you when you try to get in touch with them, I wouldn't feel bad about reposting it.

I have offered it to the next person in line who requested it. I know there is no way to hold them accountable but if the same people keep doing it, it isn't fair to those who really intend on purchasing items.