You know your totally at ease
 

in your marriage when........

you both rub pain cream on each others aches and pains.

feel free to add your own one-liners. :)

Can finish each others sentences without thinking about it:)

You can say to the waitress "I'll have the same, please."

Mine is I blew my nose in front of my dh. I don't do that in front of anyone. Lol.

Just be yourself

Hey, my best friend rubs Blue Emu on my aching back when he comes down to visit. :)

On our second date, I talked my then boyfriend (now DH of 35 years) to take me to a party that was being given at his boss' house and after being there a while, asked him to rub my back. When he got to work the following Monday (party was on a weekend), everyone wanted to know how long we had been dating. No one believed him when he told them it was our second date. :)

He goes with me to the doc (whom I don't like as much as he does) and the doc says, "Well, I guess he's seen all this before..." After 45 years, I suppose so. :-)

You let him cut your hair (he's been doing it for years and he's not a hairdresser).

when you let the last piece of pie go bad, because you want the spouse to eat it.