Applique a single initial on pillow
 

I'm making several fleece quillows for Christmas gifts and want to put just one lower case initial on them. For the men, would I put the last name initial or first? Thank you

Your choice!

If there is more than one pillow going to the same household,
I would choose the option that would let everyone have their own unique letter.
If that couldn't happen, I would go with two initials ... for the differentiation.

Well, I am old fashioned but in my day, only the initial of the last name was used unless it was both or all three.