One of the best tips I read for that, and I am serious, is to relax with a glass of wine, but don't go overboard http://bestsmileys.com/drinking/4.gif

http://inlinethumb56.webshots.com/30...200x200Q85.jpg This was my first ever piece of FMQ, a wonky box on a tote, looks terrible now but the Tote is still in use so it couldn't have been that bad.

Well done for trying, all what the ladies have said is right, just relax and practice and you will get there, and don't be too critical of yourself.

What she says. I'm still practicing but getting much better with every new project. Don't give up.

I wanted to try it, but even with my feed dogs down, the pressure from the presser foot is so tight I cannot move the fabric, so I haven't been able to move past straight line quilting.

Adjust your presser foot, what machine do you have as one of the members here, I am sure, will tell you how to adjust.

Yep I cannot fmq with out em. they grip so good!!! If you cannot afford em there are a cheaper alterative to em. go to your local hardware store and find a pair of gloves that have the gripper type like the Machingers.

I use cheap rubberized garden gloves from the dollar store and they are wonderful!

DOn't be too hard on yourself. It can seem so tricky but I think we forget that we look at things so close up and if you continue and then look at the end result or even put it away and get it out later you will be surprised at how good you have actually done. Do small items until you get more comfortable with the process. I find stippling tricky too and find sticth in the ditch awkward at times and really have only mastered really free flow things like loopy hearts and stars. All free form and not uniformed. It is still quilted and gives love and warmth. Keep trying.

Awesome!!! It will get easier!

What kind of machine do you have?

Thank you so much for this link. I need all the help I can get on FMQ. These videos are great.

I did try something different with my last king FMQ. I taped masking tape over the midde of the quilt/ Went to the center, quilted to one side back and over to the other side and back and forth. Did a bigger loose-- design it went really fast. Was worried when I turned quilt around that the second half would not match the first half so like izy I kept repeating to myself-- big swirls, squares and pointed tips, by gosh if it didn't work. I did hang a paper pattern on the wall that I had done before, mostly my eyes were on the quilt top. The hardest quilts are the first two.

What machine do you have? My Pfaff had the darning position for the foot that was for fmq and, well, darning! The presser foot lifter had a middle position.

Don't get discouraged. Be patient with practicing. You'll get it.

Keep trying, you can do it. It really does take practice. Go to http:/daystyledesigns.com she has a lot of information. Don't give up. A suggestion, make pot holders, 8" squares sandwiched with insulbrite, and quilt them they work great as presents. Keep your chin up, and practice. It's a hand/eye/foot coordination. You did not learn cursive in one day, and this is definitely more complicated. People also say the draw with a pencil on a piece of paper before they start to fmq. Good luck, and don't get discouraged.

My first attempt was on a very busy little print. I couldn't see how bad it was - LoL! I'm still learning. I love to watch the videos of other people doing FMQ because they make it look so possible.

Practice, practice, practice.. When I 1st started, I took some old quilt blocks that did not turn out right. Made a sandwich out of them and went to town. I used all my old thread and used all those different colored bobbins up. When I got all done and completely filled up the block, I put a binding on it and I'm now using it for a hot plate mat for the table. If I get it messed up with food, I throw it in the washer... if it gets to crummy or falls apart... I throw it away.

Don't plan on having it look great when you start. It will be far from it. You will get better, but you have to practice all the time.

Get some fabric from your stash that you don't like or it's just too small to do much with. Make a sandwich and have fun. Make lots of them and practice every day.

I'm not sure if anyone posted this site because I did not read all 7 pages of posts, but... this young lady has some very interesting FMQ designs. Read this site over, she is amazing. She has many, many videos of how she does the pattern.

http://www.daystyledesigns.com/365project.htm

Relaxing is very necessary, if you are tense it will show in the quilting. I just move my hands as I want, I don't try for anything but a large stipple or meandering, I don't care to try flowers, leaves of any design or pattern. Somedays I do better than others. Washing and drying the quilt helps to hide some flaws, put it on a bed and you will notice it really looks quite good.

I know you have had a lot of encouragement - - this board is so good about that <g>
I haven't read every page, but the first thing I thought was: What didn't she think she had gotten?
I did see the part where you said your shoulders got stiff ... a lower table for your machine and lots of other tables to support the quilt will help you with that. One lady throws the excess bulk over her shoulder, but that is another story for another day.
I watched one of the tutorials that was referenced, (not all the way through) but, has anyone told you to make the needle go as fast as you can and then move the quilt at a regular, consistent speed?
First tendency is to only give the needle a little speed --- and I have a problem with the sound of the machine making my movements speed up, but I digress!
If you speed your needle up and slow your movements down, the stitches will become more consistent.
and, as almost everyone has said: Practice, practice, practice.
I am a lefty who has done fairly well with moving the pencil rather than the paper ...
and, something I am learning to appreciate from this board - - some quilters are more artistically motivated than I am. I am not an artist - - I do a few shapes, but my imagination is limited (to say the least) - - sometimes I will try something I saw someone else do, but usually just stick to simple forms <wave>

Practice, practice, practice.