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Weezy Rider 05-24-2012 05:55 PM


Originally Posted by Teri D (Post 5239767)
This sort of thing is going on in just about any "hobby". I'm an amateur astronomer and we get into discussions about whether it is "cheating" to use those "new fangled" telescopes that automatically orient themselves with built-in GPS systems and then automatically move to a celestial object you select and then track it for you while you "observe" by watching a computer screen! I still like to operate my scopes manually and look through an eyepiece (sometimes while perched on a ladder since one of my scopes is taller than I am!) because I enjoy hunting for stuff -- which takes time and a knowledge of the location of celestial objects in the sky built up over many years of practice. Yes, at times I catch myself thinking that the other folks are "cheating" but then I realize that the whole point is to enjoy the beauty of the creation -- so the method you use is irrelevant. Quilting, like astronomy, reminds me a bit of the biblical passage that goes something like: "in My house there are many mansions".....

Hey - another one. I had the motorized scopes and am now having fun with a 120ST and an alt-az mount.
You're right about the beauty. Overhead and underground. (I like Geology, too) If it wasn't for the prism used to analyze color from starlight, we wouldn't have all these shades and stuff advanced by technology. There's beauty in every quilt - regardless of how it's done. The quilt using the ugliest fabrics and rather rough might have its beauty in the story behind it. Or the beauty of someone trying to teach themselves without any guidance. The fact that they persevered is beauty.

crtwelvecats 05-24-2012 06:41 PM

if you counted all the people here that would of gone home with you , You'll have a real crowded home. but I bet we all would have fun. LOL ..... I believe that we just use more up to date tools for this art form. But no matter what your preference is for working it it still is quilting. Here is another one I have heard people argue about:
That embroidery isn't really embroirdery if you do it by machine. What else can it be for petes sake?

Neesie 05-24-2012 06:49 PM

Seriously, I'd probably have stayed, listening and giggling at them. :D

Silver Needle 05-24-2012 06:57 PM

I have to add this one...the long arm quilters who say I am not really a quilter because my long arm is computerized.

Grace creates 05-24-2012 07:16 PM

Some people need to know they are entitled to their opinion but the rest of the world has the option to disagree with their opinion as well. Good for you going home to quilt. We also have the right to not listen to this heated discussion and find something better to do.

spokanequilter 05-24-2012 08:02 PM


Originally Posted by Debbie C (Post 5240067)
what a waste of time by those cackling hens when they could have been enjoying their time together creating something beautiful and long-lasting - I suppose this is why I am happiest (alone) in my home studio

"Cackling hens" - LOL!! Seriously, I agree with you - I do my best work and am most content at home in my own little quilting studio doing my own thing. There's noone but me in that studio and I am a quilter, even if I only piece the tops. And someone should just ask those cackling hens just what they would be doing if we didn't piece those quilt tops for them to quilt.... ho hum... life's too short for that kind of argument...

MimiBug123 05-24-2012 11:35 PM

I'd rather quilt than fight. To each her own! Does the fact that my ancesters didn't use a rotary cutter make me a non-quilter because I do? I think not! I would have been out of the door with you!

shayles 05-25-2012 01:33 AM

Wow I think I would have just laughed and walked away. There is so much more in this world to worry about especially where on earth am I going to store all the fabric I keep buying for all those quilt ideas in my head!! Happy quilting

maryfrang 05-25-2012 04:47 AM

Life is short. You left and that is the right decision. We are all quilters of either fabric or life. We put fabric together either by piecing, applique or putting layers together. We also put our and others lives together. Quilters we all are and appreciate everyone of them.

quilter1 05-25-2012 05:04 AM

I am so sick of some people thinking they are better than others. You are a quilter if you make a quilt, period. The top is the quilt. If you send it to someone to longarm, so be it. That is your choice, no better no less. Your choice, at least the quilt gets quilted.
I was told by a guild leader that the quilt I was working on wasn't a real quilt because it was a quilt as you go and I sewed it together on my serger. I don't belong to the guild any longer.
Glad you left.

Geri B 05-25-2012 05:56 AM

this reminds of a certain president who had a certain word discussion.......

DebbE 05-25-2012 06:12 AM

How sad that others have to put folks down for doing things differently than they do. I appreciate all forms of quilting, and truly appreciate the advances made that have made parts of quilting easier and safer, especially as I get older. Good for you for just leaving -- why allow those negative folks to taint what is a truly a happy, creative and giving art such as ours?

collady 05-25-2012 07:00 AM

The wonderful lady who does long-arm work for me is my partner in quilting. I do hand piece as well as machine piece. I also hand quilt and use my domestic machine for some quilting. I have been know to work with other people on designing and piecing tops. We are all quilters! My grandmother, who taught me to quilt 55 years ago, learned to hand piece. She taught me on a treadle machine! She would have loved the beautiful work my long arm quilter does! She would never had said that what I did was any less a quilt than what she did all by hand as a young woman. Some people think they know everything, but in reality know very little!!!!!!1

jcrow 05-25-2012 07:11 AM


Originally Posted by spokanequilter (Post 5241298)
"Cackling hens" - LOL!! Seriously, I agree with you - I do my best work and am most content at home in my own little quilting studio doing my own thing. There's noone but me in that studio and I am a quilter, even if I only piece the tops. And someone should just ask those cackling hens just what they would be doing if we didn't piece those quilt tops for them to quilt.... ho hum... life's too short for that kind of argument...

I also piece the tops only. I know a lot of long armers who are backed up with so many quilts to quilt so that means I'm not the only one who sends out their quilts to be quilted. If we all quilted our own tops, all the LAQ would be out of business.

Peckish 05-25-2012 07:40 AM


Originally Posted by BellaBoo (Post 5238088)
I would have had a ball making that group mad as wet hens. LOL. There would be no end to the comments I could have made, the more absurd the better! I would have laughed my butt off just hearing the debate out loud. I'd say you do it your way I'll do it my way and we'll let God sort it out, in the mean time pass me the cheater cloth.

I think we are kindred spirits; I would have had a lot of fun with this group as well! I would have started by telling them that they wouldn't be good long-arm quilters because their arms were too short! ROFL! Illustrate their absurdity by being absurd!

Nell Dwyer 05-25-2012 07:47 AM

SuzyQ2-remember it's what you do with your hands, and your heart that counts, many people are just stubborn headed, and enjoy their way of doing things-Just think of yourself as a "Modern" Girl-who goes with the flow-Enjoy your Art no matter what way you do it-at least you get things done faster than the OLD Fuddy duddies-haha

karate lady 05-25-2012 08:36 AM


Originally Posted by quiltmau (Post 5240220)
I love to design and piece tops. I can't quilt to save my soul!-Binding is okay. My main problem is I can't afford to pay up to $300 to have the tops quilted as I won't keep them but donate them.

I need to find a solution to this before I am smothered in tops! LOL

I cannot afford it either. I have to save if I want one done. I hand do small ones for kids. when all else is done................Tie it!!! I love tied ones. smile

karate lady 05-25-2012 08:43 AM


Originally Posted by Quiltbyme (Post 5240047)
Question ?? When you send your quit top to a long arm quilter do they bind the edge before you get it back or do you have to do it.

I believe you can pay to have them bind it for you, but a lot of us en joy the process. I do...to me it is the icing on the lovely cake I made... smile....

tesspug 05-25-2012 11:41 AM


Originally Posted by Steady Stiching (Post 5239562)
You're only a real quilter if you hand quilt using a needle you whittled out of a whale bone using thread you spun from your own cotton plants.....while breast feeding a 5 year old ....LOL

Looks like you had a bad encounter with the quilt police!

Could some body please do a tutorial on how to whittle a whale bone needle. LOL

captlynhall 05-25-2012 12:34 PM

There are many steps in the process of making a quilt. Piecing the top, basting the top, batting and backing together, quilting the layers, and applying the binding. Who is to say that you must do every step of the process yourself or it isn't a quilt? I machine piece because it is fun to sew on my little Brother machine. I can't sew well enough to do anything else but straight lines, but that's all I need to piece a quilt top. I hand quilt because I enjoy the slow steady rhythm of each stitch and it gives me time alone to just be. Besides, I don't have the skill to machine quilt. It's all good.

Cybrarian 05-25-2012 12:58 PM

Good grief, people with this kind of time to waste astound me!

catmcclure 05-25-2012 01:05 PM

That's sort of like asking if someone is a "real" mother if she only has stepkids or adopted kids. Sounds to me like they were suffering from terminal stupidity.

mim 05-25-2012 01:44 PM

when "purists" talk to me about only 100% cotton, etc, I tell them the womwn in the covered wagons used what came to hand. And those quilts are admired in museums
Mim

Laura22 05-25-2012 01:53 PM

I try to avoid negative judgmental types in all aspects of my life, quilting included. Such a silly thing to argue about :(

wordpaintervs 05-25-2012 04:42 PM

that hasn't happened to me at a quilting thing, but actually at a group of people from my church and they started raising their voices a bit and getting somewhat argumentative. I just said "Sorry folks. I gotta go" and left. Didn't seem like either time or place...if there ever is a time for loud arguing....I'd rather find something better to do with my time. YIKES

maryb119 05-25-2012 04:55 PM

There is room for everyone in the quilting world. The first quilt I ever made was cut out with scissors and stitched on my machine. I like to think that I have advanced as methods have advanced. I am not to old to learn a new way of doing things or to appreciate the love and work that went into a quilt if it was made using a different method than I use. What a sad world to be so narrow minded. You were right to go leave. I would have been right behind you.

Quilter 65 05-25-2012 04:58 PM

I used to think that, but if you follow that line of thinking clear through, we would be walking and not riding in ANYTHING. Let alone still sending smoke signals instead of using cell phones. I agree with the lady who said that the early women appreciated their sewing machines. I DO think hand quilting is lovely and so is machine quilting. I sure would like to do it as well as the artists I have seen on this site. Maybe they were having a bad day???

Scrap41 05-25-2012 05:40 PM

She probably doesn't sew anything but just likes to complain. There are many of them out there;
just give me one or two who love to do parts or all of the making of a quilt. I have 2 tops ready
for a LAQ, (just not the funds right now, but soon). I love to hand quilt but I am a slow quilter
and right now I don't have room in my living room to put up a frame; I have GD living with me
and I had my fabric in her room and it has gravitated to the living room in tubs....I was so hoping
to clean in there this weekend.

Maire 05-25-2012 07:17 PM


Originally Posted by merry (Post 5237870)
SusieQ, some people will argue about anything :D I'd have gone home with you :thumbup:

So true! In those situations ignoring is the best reply. And don't let it bother you.

Maire

CoyoteQuilts 05-26-2012 08:32 AM

Who cares? If nobody 'built' the tops, nobody would 'quilt' the layers.... Also, which came first the chicken or the egg? Same idea. Are you a homemaker if you send your clothes out to be washed and have a housekeeper?

T-Anne 05-26-2012 03:46 PM

I agree it was a waste of time and I would have gone home with you too! And I laugh because I can hear my Mom say " some peoples children". LOL (of course it was me she was usually talking about)

burchquilts 05-26-2012 05:59 PM


Originally Posted by Annie68 (Post 5237694)
You did the right thing by going home. Time is too short to be arguing over such silliness.

: )

I quit my local quilt guild over a pretty similar concept (well, actually it was a racist rant one member had gone on that I was having no part of). My thinking was like yours... life is too short. Do I miss being in the guild? Well, I miss being in "a" guild but not this one. I'm not from here & have lived numerous places & belonged to numerous guilds so I know there are good ones out there. But experiences like that really leave a bad taste in your mouth, don't they?

And just as an aside, I think a quilter is anyone who makes a top... period. I hate when people get their panties all in a twist over defining somebody else. Grrrrrrrrrrr!

burchquilts 05-26-2012 06:01 PM


Originally Posted by Maire (Post 5243376)
So true! In those situations ignoring is the best reply. And don't let it bother you.

Maire

Like my mom used to say "If they can't run it, they want to ruin it". Ain't dat da troof?

nativetexan 05-26-2012 06:50 PM

oh i swore i would always complete my quilts myself. then i had two done for me and it was just fine!!! so yes you are a "quilter" even if someone else does the design quilting for you.

danece 05-26-2012 09:38 PM

I love this board, I have been sewing since I was about 9, started quilting when I was about 25, I have sewn many tops, and even quilted quite a few, but, because it is often easier and less expensive to send my tops to a local longarm quilter because i want the receipient to feel comfortable washing it, according to my LAquilter, she feels that we do all of the work, and they just sandwich it together using our ideas, I still quilt the occasional by hand, but not if I feel the quilt will be washed very often, and I can't afford to buy my own machine

Greenheron 05-27-2012 04:42 AM


Originally Posted by tesspug (Post 5242533)
Could some body please do a tutorial on how to whittle a whale bone needle. LOL

Happy to:

1. Catch a whale........

2. Let me know when step one is finished and we'll continue the tute.


ube quilting 05-27-2012 05:00 AM

Jacquie, I love binding too!
peace


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