I agree with the washing in a front loader machine!

The quilt should wash up nicely unless it has really intricate applique or isn't quilted very heavily. I throw our couch quilts into the washer and dryer weekly and they've held up nicely. Sometimes I remember to put them on the gentle cycle. Her regular laundry detergent should be fine. An extra rinse is a wonderful idea as well!

I always wash mine before giving just for that reason.

Thank you so much for all the replies, I have forwarded them to my friend.

I would toss it in the dryer with a regular dryer sheet and a very damp large bath towel. That's what I do to my quilts before they go to their home.

If she's got allergies, the Bounce might not be a good idea. I have issues with it myself. I have to use hypoallergenic soap and use Downy softener for sensitive skin.